Your place · Moving out
Splitting bills with roommates
Put it in writing before the first bill: each person's share of rent and every utility, the due date, who pays the landlord, whose name each bill is in, and what happens to the deposit and a roommate who leaves early. If you all signed one lease, each of you can be on the hook for the whole rent.
What to know
- Read your lease for a "joint and several liability" clause. Most shared leases have one. It makes every signer responsible for all of the rent and all of any damage, no matter how you split it among yourselves or who caused the damage. Source: George Washington University
- Fill in the basics of a written roommate agreement: the lease dates, total monthly rent, what each person pays, and the day rent is due. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services
- Pick a payment setup. Either each roommate pays the landlord and keeps their own receipt, or one "tenant bookkeeper" collects everyone's share a set number of days early and pays the landlord once. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services
- List every utility (electricity, gas, water and sewer, trash, internet) and the percentage each person pays. Write down whose name each bill is in, and agree to pay that person directly. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services
- Agree that whoever misses the deadline pays any late fee, the way Ohio State's sample agreement does. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services
- Write down what each person paid toward the security deposit and how you'll split it when it comes back: equal shares, or charging damage to whoever caused it. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services Landlords often hold the whole deposit until every original signer has moved out. Source: George Washington University
- Agree on what happens if someone leaves early. Do they have to find a replacement? Do the rest of you get to approve that person? The sample agreement keeps the person who left paying their share until the lease ends or a replacement starts paying. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services
If it doesn't work
- Sending money to a new roommate for the first time? Ask them to send a request from the app, or send a small test payment first. Source: CFPB
- Got a sudden "send me rent here instead" message from a roommate's account? Talk to them in person or by phone first. It could be a hacker who got into their account. Source: FTC
- Money showed up in the app but you can't use it? Money you receive goes to your app balance first, not your bank account, and you may have to transfer it. Source: FTC Plan for that before rent day.
- Paid a scammer through an app? Report it to the app and at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Source: FTC
- Arguing about it? See Disagreeing without a fight.
Good to know
A worked split (made-up example)
Rent is $1,800 for a two-bedroom. Sam's room is bigger and has its own bathroom, so Sam pays $1,000 and Jordan pays $800. The electric and internet bills are in Jordan's name, so each month Jordan posts the totals in the group chat and Sam pays half within three days. Rent goes to Sam, the bookkeeper, five days before the 1st.
A money-talk script (made-up example)
"Before the first bill comes, can we sit down for 30 minutes and fill out an agreement? I'd like to cover rent, utilities, late fees and the deposit, so neither of us has to guess later."
Insurance is separate too
Renters insurance covers your belongings, not your roommate's. Some insurers let roommates buy joint coverage, but rules vary by state and company, and a partner usually has to be named on the policy. Source: Insurance Information Institute
Keep a record
If each roommate pays the landlord directly, each keeps their own receipts. Source: Ohio State Student Legal Services With a bookkeeper, keep the app history or bank statements that show what you sent.
Choose carefully
Choose roommates you trust, keep your landlord informed when you move out, and follow your lease's move-out rules. Source: George Washington University
Sources
- George Washington University Off-Campus Student Affairs Joint and several liability
- Ohio State University Student Legal Services Roommate agreement
- Federal Trade Commission Mobile payment apps: how to avoid a scam when you use one
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Helpful tips for using mobile payment services
- Insurance Information Institute Insurance industry group Renters insurance
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