Phone script · A debt collector who called you
Talking to a debt collector
Get the facts about the debt before you agree to anything or pay anything.
Have this ready
- Paper and pen
- Any letters you've gotten about the debt
What to say
- Open
“Before we talk about payment, I need some information.”
- Get their details
“What's your name, your company's name, and a mailing address?”
- Ask about the debt
“Who is the original creditor, and what amount do you say I owe?”
- Ask for it in writing
“Please send me the validation notice in writing, including how to dispute it.”
- Set limits
“Please only call me [time / way]. I'm not agreeing to pay anything on this call.”
Write down the date, the name of the person you spoke with, and what they said.
After the call
- A collector generally has to give you the creditor's name, the amount and how to dispute it, at first contact or within five days. If they can't, it could be a scam (CFPB).
- Don't give bank or card numbers until you've confirmed they're legitimate (CFPB). Dispute in writing, quickly, and keep copies. Some rights only last 30 days after first contact (CFPB).
- Collectors can't harass you, threaten you, or call before 8 a.m. or after 9 p.m. (FTC). Report problems to the CFPB.
The full lesson: Debt collectors: your rights
Sources
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau What should I do when a debt collector contacts me?
- Federal Trade Commission Debt collection FAQs
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Debt collection
Last checked October 2, 2026 against the sources listed. See a mistake?